What I think of myself may differ from what others think of me.This makes the task of describing oneself quite difficult. When I list down my strengths, some may take it as conceit, when I list down my weaknesses, some may look at it as false humility. Anyway, you'll agree with me when I say, 'there is only one "I" in this world. I am born an original, and I don't want to die a copy. You will know me by the words I say, for they flow out of the abundance of my heart. I can easily shift from the role of a professor in school to the role of a woman at home, and to the role of a lady in the society. I can be comfortable in formal clothes when I'm in school or in my office, still feel comfortable to go a little bit sophisticated in special occasions, and comfortable still when I dive down into shorts and plain t-shirts when I cook, or clean, tend the garden, or do the laundry.
I am here just the way I am, not perfect, yet constantly growing. I'm here to meet friends, and if ever the friendship grows deeper, we can never tell. Anything that happens has a reason and a season. God did not make solo parts for us. We were made for connections, and good connections will bring out the best in us, for after we've been with these people, we find ourselves less critical, more full of faith and with a vision for the future. You are certain to get the worst of the bargain when you exchange ideas with the wrong person. With some people we spend an evening, with others we invest it. We just have to be careful where to stop to inquire for directions along the road of life. Wise is the man who fortifies his life with the right friendships.

MY POTENTIAL PARTNER
I'm looking for a friend who is just the way he is, one who can just be himself to start with. None of us would be crazy enough to set such a standard for ourselves. If we think some people are just naturally more loving than others, we should think again. There are no pre-packaged saints; no add-and-stir, 3-in-1 formula that makes love suddenly flow through you. To be loving you've got to deny yourself and make others your priority.
Love does not set standards, it does not demand qualifications. Love rejoices in the other person's strengths and accepts the other person's weaknesses. Love goes beyond the parameters of race, culture, education, appearance, and some other factors which others tend to view as conditions or limitations. Love can start with just something plain and simple, and will someday transform it to something wonderful because love has the power to make the other person better than he was the day you found him, and from there, to the best person both of you can ever imagine.
Love can pick up and gather the other person's broken dreams, shattered ego, distorted self concept, and tattered spirit; then gently form them into a brand new person.
We will know when the friendship starts to bloom and blossoms into something deeper and more special. When you look into someone's eyes, you both know whether or not you have a relationship. There's only the two of you, you can't fake it or pretend you have it if you don't. Nothing needs to be said, you both know exactly where you stand. YOU COME TO LOVE NOT BY FINDING THE PERFECT PERSON, BUT BY SEEING AN IMPERFECT PERSON PERFECTLY.